25. AZ.
Chubby.
Queer.
Femme.
Lover/Fighter.
Free.

There's a degree of difficulty in dealing with me.

 

jackanthonyfernandez:

nychealth:

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  • Ask your doctor if PrEP (Pre-exposure Prophylaxis) may be right for you.
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Emergency PEP

If you are HIV-negative and think you were exposed to HIV, immediately go to a clinic or emergency room and ask for PEP (Post-exposure  Prophylaxis).

  • PEP can stop HIV if started within 36 hours of exposure.
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Many insurance plans including Medicaid cover PEP and PrEP. Assistance may be available if you are uninsured. Visit NYC Health’s website to find out where to get PrEP or PEP in New York City.

#STAYSAFEOK

TO-DO LIST FOR THE DEPRESSED

1). Wash your sheets, change your pillow case, wash your blankets. Wash away all the days you’ve spent withering in bed crying. Wash the tears off your pillowcase. Wash away the sad skin cells. Wash away the darkness.

2). Take a shower today. Brush your teeth. Make yourself a good breakfast and remind yourself that you deserve to eat. Dress to impress— yourself. Do whatever makes you feel put together, even if you’re not leaving the house.

3). Water your plants and remind yourself that you love them even though they’re not growing quickly. The same should go for yourself.

4). Feed your pets and remind yourself that there will be no one to love them if you commit suicide. Know that there is no one your cat purrs louder around and there is no one your dog’s face lights up for but you.

5). Return all the things you’ve been meaning to return. Return the clothes that make you feel fat. Return the clothes that make you feel ugly. Return your sick clothes. Throw them away if you need to. Let go if you need to. Cry if you need to and remember why you kept them for so long, but know that it is okay to let them go now. Return your cynicism to the cold boy who taught you it was better to love nothing. Make him feel how warm your heart is now without him.

6). Get new curtains. Close them. Close your eyes. Open them. Pull away the curtains. Let yourself reminded that there may be things in life you can’t control, but how much light enters your room is something you can control. The same can be said for your soul. You decide how much light you let in. You decide how many people you let in. You decide how many people you let help you. You decide how you love and who you love. Let that sink in for a moment.

7). Let yourself float in water. You only drown when you panic. Lie on your back and relax. Even on days when you can’t function, remind yourself that all you have to do is float. As long as you are breathing, you are alive.

5:42 p.m. (To-do list on days I can’t function)

(Source: angryasianfeminist)

Don’t kiss me if you’re afraid of thunder. My life is a storm.

Anita Krizzan  (via thatkindofwoman)

(Source: quotethat)

princessoffloral:

collectiveassbutts:

earthswinds:

I need feminism; because the bra straps of a twelve year old shouldn’t make a 40 year old married principal with two daughters “uncomfortable”

So am I allowed to walk around adult women who are mothers and grandmothers at work with my cock out or what

in what world is someone’s dick equivalent to a fucking bra strap

(Source: solarcomplexities)

I am “too tall” to wear heels. My thunder thighs are “too big” to wear short shorts. My bruises and scars are “too unsightly” to show off my legs. And I couldnt give two fucks. My thighs are the strongest part of my body, my bruises and scars are from past struggles and working hard, where is the shame in that? Why should I hide my body to spare you and your insecurities? I will walk my glamazon body into the world in 6 inch heels, flaunting my thunder thighs and rock solid calf muscles to tower over society with no apologies. #honormycurves #effyourbeautystandards #thunderthighs #loveyourself #bodypositivity #selflove #bodyconfidence #glamazon #femme #hardfemme #fatbabe

I am “too tall” to wear heels. My thunder thighs are “too big” to wear short shorts. My bruises and scars are “too unsightly” to show off my legs. And I couldnt give two fucks. My thighs are the strongest part of my body, my bruises and scars are from past struggles and working hard, where is the shame in that? Why should I hide my body to spare you and your insecurities? I will walk my glamazon body into the world in 6 inch heels, flaunting my thunder thighs and rock solid calf muscles to tower over society with no apologies. #honormycurves #effyourbeautystandards #thunderthighs #loveyourself #bodypositivity #selflove #bodyconfidence #glamazon #femme #hardfemme #fatbabe

I want you. I want to throw you against a wall, wrap your legs around my waist and kiss you. Kiss you until we have to stop to catch our breaths. I want you and only you. I want to take you on road trips that lead us to pulling over on the side of the road because we can’t keep our hands off each other. I want you and your flaws. I want your messy makeup from teary eyes as I hold you and talk to you about life. I want the 3am phone calls because you can’t sleep at night. I want to be yours and only yours. I want to taste all your cooking, even if it’s not good, even if it’s experimenting I’d have you cook every meal for the rest of my life. I want you. I want my trembling hands to grab your waist and dance with you in the middle of an empty room. I want to struggle on days when I can’t see you. I want to fight about meaningless stuff that will lead to meaningful sex. I want you. I want your hand to rest on my forearm as we enter a party, so I can reassure you that you are safe with me. I want to sing to you in the shower and have you shut me up with kisses because we both know I’m no singer. I want the ups and downs, the winter and summer days. I want you and only you…

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